If there’s anything more toxic than a bunch of Linux users, it’s a bunch of Linux users on Lemmy. Calm down and go read the change log fussy bastards.

Not exactly what you’re looking for, but I like using proxmox

Personally, I’ve found the most supported software from Linux mint

I think in terms of fedi, it’s fine. I mean plenty of people think Linus Torvold is an Ass, but we all love Linux for what it is.