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  • recklessengagement@lemmy.worldtoADHD@lemmy.worldA bit fucked up, isn't it?
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    13 days ago

    Implying you can control or induce these hyperfixations in a productive way is disingenuous at best, measurably harmful at worst.

    If you work in a job that can use use the chaos in a productive way that’s great, but I’m willing to bet you still face abnormally high difficulty with general life tasks, and consistently struggle to enforce a work/life balance.

    You’re not helping people with ADHD by posting this. You’re establishing an unattainable standard for people that are already doing everything in their power just to get by.

















  • recklessengagement@lemmy.worldtoAutism@lemmy.worldFor my own safety
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    4 months ago

    The thing I don’t get about masking is how it’s any different from standard mental filtering most people do in casual and professional social settings.

    If I acted however I wanted whenever I wanted I wouldnt have many friends, let alone stay employable.

    Coincidentally, I have many autistic friends, who have explained the concept to me before - I still don’t really get it, but I don’t need to understand it to still respect my friends.

    But internally, it just sounds like complaining. Idk. If anyone has a decent explanation I’d be interested.



  • I’ve lurked for a while, but I made an account just so I could comment on what a brain-dead take this is. Referring to ADHD meds prescribed by a licensed physician as “stimmies” perpetuates the idea that ADHD is nothing more than a “lazy person” illness, and that our medication is merely a crutch or an “addiction”.

    Furthermore, people don’t “choose meds over other pleasures in life”. Meds are the reason we can achieve and enjoy pleasures in life. Needing medication is not fucking “dependency” akin to a drug addict. Jeez, I guess you must have a real problem with diabetics always neededing their next hit of insulin too, am I right?

    Unreal. You’re doing way more harm than good and I suggest you check yourself before doing even more damage.