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Cake day: November 1st, 2025

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  • We make a plan where you tell me Xyz, but don’t mention other important factors to the plan. What I expect to happen doesn’t happen. instant mood shift into anger mostly because I should have asked more questions and you should have planned better.

    Someone existing in the same space as me can have nothing to do with me and I’ll still find them distracting. Somehow they’re sitting quietly by themselves talking but that chatter makes me want to turn my skin inside out it’s so distracting.


  • Yeah. It may take a little bit for people to try to understand what it is about me that’s different, but they are aware of it. The lack of eye contact an the rather constant exhaustion and inconsistent social niceties are tells even if I can mask it for short periods of time. The fact is my mask slips all the time but people may not always have the context to put together why. But they know something is off.