When I was 35 my father had his 3rd child. 2 years later I had my first child, 2 years after that I had my second. The only thing that gets to me is he isn’t necessarily the grampa I want for my children. He’s busy raising his own kid and I get that but it’d still be nice to have a more active grandpa. Just my two cents and something to keep in mind if your kid is going to possibly be expecting within the next handful of years
As funny as this is as a Dad there’s absolutely no way I wouldn’t wear that out, and yes I’m a muffin.