Alexmitter

I think you turn feelings over facts.

Asperger’s was a syndrome, and they stopped calling it that, so it’s no longer a syndrome.

Those words only have meaning to a US American. I am a Asperger. My diagnosis is Asperger and I do not want to be called ASD Level something.

Its a disorder, not calling it one is not making it any less of a disorder.

Did you just call me neurotypical? Why

That seems to be fully off topic.

I am not sure if that quote is helpful. Reality is humans long for companion of some kind, we are social animals and that includes us on the spectrum. Company becomes a option when you are assured that it is there for you if you need it. But it is not for most of us.

That’s the consequence of your own action. You gave advice that is simply said dangerous, you seem to have absolutely zero clue about the life of aspergers outside your imaginary rosa glassed world. And now you wine about being told that to me, and to SuddenDownpour who you called high on crack. You are a danger and you need help. You should really be taken your rosa glasses off, you need a dose of reality, its something you need to endure to understand reality.

It’s clear that you’re so miserable with who you are that you want to take people to task for liking themselves, and yep, no one will ever want to be friends with someone like that.

Better then being full of myself, clearly.

Seek help. Seriously. This is indicative of more going on than an autism diagnosis. You have severe self-worth issues that you need to engage with a trained therapist.

I may need help, but so do you Mr. Giant Ego.

I’m reblocking you as it’s clear you’re not in a state to have any sort of meaningful conversation until you do a lot of work on yourself.

So you say.

Had to think about this today and really have to tell you how amazed I am how oblivious you are to reality.
Those Bullies, have they just made poof and vanished from the surface of this world? No, they are still there and they still do what they always did.
If the People did not like you when you were young, they don’t like you now either and that for the same reasons, and you are just too blind or naive to smell that.
Self love comes from seeing that others love you, if others don’t, and you still act it, you are just acting narcissistic and everyone knows.
You tell us all, in all honesty, that how we are is wrong and we should be different for people to like us, and rejecting this ridiculous idea makes us “so badly hurt that they can’t realize when someone is trying to help them, and strikes out at those who are willing to help them.”. You are so full of yourself, and you love yourself, we can all sense that.

School uniforms are a terrible concept in every way.

How can someone just be so full of themselves. It impresses me. You did not even read what I wrote and think that I am just a friendless loner.

Yea, I guessed you just wanted to help. You don’t, you are just full of yourself.

I must have already been a terrible person in per-kindergarden. Or maybe you are wrong.

Okay I see that this is about your non-vocal autistic son. While I speak about Asperger struggles, a completely different world.
There is quite a lot of research into that already on the Asperger side. There is something with our faces that makes normal people feel unwell and you can not turn that off. It even works with simple portrait pictures. It just scratches something in their brain.

You de-validate my struggles, and the struggles of most in the Asperger Autism community. The statistics to loneliness and worklessness, the high suicide and low lifetime expectations do not lie. Why we rank so high for depression and illness.

I think you must be of the kind that does not automatically tick off people simply by existing in their space, that makes things easier for you and things like “just have some smalltalk with them” and “if you do that and that they will like you”.

There is no statistic but I would say that the vast majority of us are not of that kind.

All my current friends are either internet people from a different continent or some people I retained from that “difficult kids” school I was forced to go to. Those people are weird enough themselves that they have fun with Me and I have fun with them. Since then things did not work that well even though I tried hard.
People just generally do not want to spend time with me, when after-work activities are the current talk topic of the room, they switch topic when I enter.

Adults are the same, just different. They may not beat you daily at a place you can not escape aka school for the fun of it, but they still let you know that you are not one of them, that you are not welcome beyond what your work capabilities can provide.

I agree, the boldness would have scared.

It sounds like your family does not love you. People who love you as a fellow human will accept your tone.

That’s the most abelist answer in this thread so far.
“Maybe if your wheelchair is bothering them, try walking”

Yes thats humans. And even if you ask them, they will not give a proper answer.
Best recommendation I have is, let them go. Friendships expire and there is nothing that can be done about it.