• SkyezOpen@lemmy.world
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    7 个月前

    Include “person” and it sounds much better because it is more humanizing. Like “autistic person” rather than “autist” or “autistic.” Works with other descriptors too.

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      7 个月前

      Speak for yourself only, please. It’s s fine if you prefer autistic person, but I and many autistics I know don’t. The bottom line is not to teach someone what’ s best but to inform them that there may be preferences and to listen to the reason there talking to, not to make blanket statements about what’s the right thing.

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        7 个月前

        You didn’t do anything wrong, both is fine. Me and most of my autistic friends actually prefer to call ourselves autistic. Figure out what you prefer first and foremost :)