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  • I just finished watching for myself. I think he held up pretty well and brought up many valid points and fact checks.

    One thing I didn’t see anyone bring up much regarding the topic of abortion is the topics of the health of the mother and the baby.

    When I was 2 years old, we were rear ended by an 18 wheeler. My mother’s head hit the windshield. They took her to the hospital and ended up prescribing her pain killers.

    It didn’t cross anyone’s mind that maybe she was pregnant again. Once the doctors found out, they realized the pain killers were the kind that cause gross life threatening fetus/baby deformities.

    There was literally zero percent chance that embryo was going to survive at that early point in her pregnancy. So the doctors had no choice but to highly suggest she abort the pregnancy. Otherwise she’d either end up with a highly deformed baby, or even worse she’d end up dead herself.

    She regretfully had them carry out the abortion, realizing that her first child (me) was literally named after my uncle from my father’s side that only lived to be a day and a half old, because of intestinal birth defects where his intestines were formed on the outside.

    Medical technology wasn’t so great back in the 1950’s when my deformed baby uncle was born, so there wasn’t much way to know that he would be born deformed. ☹️ My father decided to name me after him in honor.

    By 1984, at my own age of 2, my mother was pregnant again, but nobody knew when the truck rear ended us. But medical technology had improved enough by then that they should have at least checked whether she was pregnant or not before prescribing her medicine.

    The doctors made the wrong call and prescribed something known to cause extreme birth defects. So once they found out, they insisted she have an abortion, which she regretfully did, for sake of her long term health.

    She still regrets that decision today to an extent, but my mom very likely wouldn’t even be alive today if she had carried that baby.

    So, my opinion on all of that is, pro choice, and to hell with politicians or religious people practicing medicine without a license…










  • I had already spent years doing occasional side work with around a dozen if not more folks originally from India. Most, except the oldest of the elders spoke good if not excellent English. But there’s pretty much always gonna be at least a subtle accent, if not a heavy accent with secondary languages.

    I thought I understood the fella clearly, but it was both a combination of his accent plus the strange sentence structure context that threw me totally off.

    He said he was ‘updating his tiles’, but I misunderstood his vowels, so I heard ‘updating his towels’

    And why the hell would he use the word updating, he was literally having all the carpet removed in 44+ rooms and having tiles installed, not ‘updated’.

    So even the context clues didn’t add up, I never guessed he was talking about the tile work he had been planning for months.





  • Honestly I haven’t studied foreign languages all that much, but I’ve heard the accents that come from a variety of regions and countries.

    The last time I got confused about anything spoken in English by an Indian man, I mistook ‘tiles’ as ‘towels’.

    I totally lost out on a tile installation job offer over that, because of a misunderstanding over what’s basically the pronunciation of a particular vowel.

    Like, in the back of my head, I’m wondering why this hotel owner is telling me he’s updating his towels, when really he said tiles. He was offering me a job…

    I didn’t find out until he got others to do all the work ☹️

    Vowels can be extremely important in communication…